About me

I have never really been good at writing about myself, partly because I have learnt to present myself in many different ways depending on social expectations, and partly because when I do, I am rarely honest with the reader.

So after what can only be described as a zigzag of a personal life, I find myself sat trying to pen this short bio.

Attempting to describe myself honestly, I would say that I am a person who struggles with the concept of binary decisions and life.

I am a great believer that we should all be a bit less judgemental, and spend more time reflecting on our personal needs rather than making choices based on the opinions of others.

I always found myself hiding some part of my personality, whether from friends, work colleagues or lovers, until around eight years ago. After hitting rock bottom, I started working my way through various forms of therapy in an attempt to put myself in a box which I viewed as acceptable to other people. In doing so, I actually achieved the exact opposite.

I started writing as a coping mechanism to express my feelings and emotions, which then morphed into an unapologetic journey through my experiences and desires too.

I have always been fascinated by all forms of sexuality, and this new venture is my way of paying homage to people brave enough to make their dreams a reality.

I don’t intend my stories to be perfect in any way, and although I sometimes cringe at the way I have written parts, I like to think of them as a journal of my thoughts and a demonstration of my writing development as I continue to explore.

At some point I hope to pen a full biography and publish it on Kindle too. I feel that not enough is done to discuss mental health and our society’s taboos. We should all try to be far more open, and I hope that by writing about my own experiences I may encourage others to do the same.